congrats LIVELY, i was married for 25 yrs. also, but took two wifes to make that happen, been single for a ton of yrs. 25 too be exact, not looking for a 3rd. I figured if i couldn't get it right after 2 then i should just quit.
It takes special people and a lot of understanding to be married that long and i envey you and you'res for that to last.
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