I can understand your frustration for loading your car up but I can see appreciate him for calling to say no thanks before you drove all the way. Its not his fault you didn't have the car close by. I see both points of view and don't think neither is at fault but maybe the poster for trying to flame the guy. He didn't scam anyone or let you drive for nothing. Heck if everybody posted everytime something fell through we'd have a whole section just for that.