Welcome HOME all of us !
Dennis, man I feel for ya with your issues at home when you are so far FROM home........I've been there although it was a loooooong time ago.
Communication is imperative as well as making use of all the available resources that are offered by dedicated and caring organizations for just these times you face. Don't feel too 'proud' my Brother in arms, to look into them for help. Like the poster says, 'It takes courage to ask for help'......
We didn't have those resources available when I came home.........Luck