Yep Zippo, not a level playing field indeed. In your case, you were looked at as a male Cougar-Man-Slut. that is not fair, as a true Cougar has a "mystique" if it is a female.... I prefer "Sugar Daddy" or something... makes us seem like we are rich & powerful, like executives who have offshore accounts, several "vacation homes" & live part time in Europe while driving Lambo's. Instead- we get names like dirty old men. I guess I will join that club in May as I will turn 40.