my mom told me about how my dad was just a nice country boy when they got married. he left for korea not long after. he came back mean and ready to kill. and drank heavy. he had never drank before.he was a great dad. fair man.but if you mad him mad he was uncontrlable. i know that part for a fact! lol but if he lost control someone was going to die. took him yrs to break that type of thinkin.all because of the way he lived oand what he had seen over there.. i have a heartfelt love and admiration for those men!!.but i still cant after aLL THESE YRS SHAKE THAT BAD FEELIN ABOUT NOT GOING TO VIETNAM.....it wasnt the killing or gettin killed that i didnt want , i had a bad bad problem with autority back then and i hated hated and hated some more the idea of haircuts...lol still do!!