How exactly did you arrive at Lively being an alcoholic?? Funny, sometimes we accidentally say what is really on our minds the most... even when it may our biggest secret.
Could it be....
Perhaps you are struggling with some things, believe me we all would understand- which would make sense about how you talk to people here. Could it be the "Pot calling the kettle Black?".... been to meeting lately?? The symptoms of alcoholism fit your behavior to a tee my friend. I could be wrong, you might just be full-time jerk; but alcoholism makes wayyyyyy more common sense about your belligerent, judgmental, & condescending attitude. Much like Outlaw sighted, maturity stops DEAD IN ITS TRACKS when in the middle of an addiction too... it is "everyone else s fault"
Let me guess: You don't have a problem right?