RJ is protected there users, thats how they make money, let people join for free, no questions asked or identity confirmations, then they charge advertisers on there site..."we have X users, that visit our site X times,...etc etc. RJ can not be the only one to blame. I got scammed to for alot more than u did, and I know it hurts, but all we can do is be proactive to help the HONEST and Good people.