I know; easier said than done right?? Below is worth a try....
Give thanks in these times. Thank God for the trials & tribulations you have... he is teaching you right now. Use your free will to rise up & gather as much wisdom as you can right now. Do not chastise him. Lift it up. Give something away right now to someone who has less than you. Expect the gold at the end of this path. Expect change & more issues popping up until you have this thing handled under God's power; not your own. Scoot