Originally Posted by DrivingMissDD
My thoughts exactly, Beast.
It's too EZ to let these oddballs get our goat and get us all fired up. EZer to just vet them through interaction and I-G-N-O-R-I-N-G them when they show their TRUE intentions. Actually WE WIN when it's done that way. Letting them get to us, THEY win.We're all better folks than that.
I'm really sorry to see those friends of ours that have decided to 'move on' from RJ. I miss them. What makes this such a unique forum is the high level of maturity, knowledge, and openness. It takes all of us as UNIQUE INDIVIDUALS with all the little emotional and personality quirks we each have to make this as unique a forum it is. And with that individual uniqueness comes personality differences that sometimes cannot be accepted by one or both parties for one reason or another. We each make our own choices and we need to respect whatever choice an individual makes, we don't know what's deep within each others minds and hearts or what each of us has to deal with on a day to day basis.
Peace, Out V 
Thats Good DD but the way I see it the people that decided to leave the site did not posses some of the Qualities you described above but instead acted like Children and took their balls and went home...its happened over the 8 yrs I been on here...for some reason some of these guys think the site will not make it without them...don't ask me why but they do...then they go to another site put up with un-real Censorship,Dictaters for Mods, Cursed at on a day to day basis by staff and members by being told to "Shut the Phuck Up " and They claim they are glad to be there...but they couldn't handle minor disagreements on This site....GO FIGURE !!!...LOL......JMO ( based on 8 yrs observation)
Your also right some of us are Mature Grown Men and some struggle
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