heck when i was a kid we cramed 20 people in my granparents little house kids played after the meet and greet the women cooked and guy shot the chit and watched tv around noon had christmas dinner and then hung out sometimes gifts where in morning sometimes afternoons around 5 ish everyone left and gift wise at thanks giving adults would draw names to see who they bought for and as kids if we got one thing we really wanted we were the luckiest sob's on earth this year had dinner on 24th with uncle amd on christmas kids got what gifts we could get and we just sat back and relaxed. none of the rest of my family didnt even try to call but in away its ok theres bad blood between them and my uncle and the fact that we moved but thats not my issue to solve got my uncle and my family on here so im good