Just doing a little research on how to find this person. I've learned he is also a member of nastyz28.com also using sexytransam as his screen name. Somewhere I saw his last name is hash but I can't find that again. I don't rememebr where I saw it but I did. Then I found a myspace page I think it is his.
http://www.myspace.com/kylehash This should give me some people to contact that may know him but I'm not real sure how I should approach them.