ok guys, thanks for the input
and sorry for being a bad author
i did not wait for 3 years to do anything
i called my local pd and the internet crime division of the feds on month four
i have bugged the hell out of both of them and it took until now for them to tell me to go else where
i called the MI states attorneys office and he gave me the run down on the procedures
Good to go on the time
so it's game on again. and this time i got the right answers, not some small town PD that puts it on the back burner
thanks again guys