I don't want to be mis-understood, in this matter: IN NO WAY, DO I SUGGEST CODDLING, OR FORGIVING A THIEF. I AM NOT A "TURN THE OTHER CHEEK" KIND OF GUY, PERIOD.
I also believe in karma, I just have other methods for getting even is all, y'all have your ways, I have mine. I believe the first chance to get even, ain't necessarily the best chance, and if it ain't the best chance, karma will provide a guy, with another oppurtunity. Im a firm beliver in an old Sicilian proverb: Vengeance, is a delicious dish, best served cold.