thanks scooter, i cant tell you how hard it was for me to keep my big mouth shut.i wanted to call him on everything he said but i didnt. which was a suprise even to me!i couldnt wait to get away from him because i wasnt sure how long i could stay quite.i walk with a cane which has a long blade inside which i thought about using but in the bach of my head my best friend voice kept saying "it aint worth it"and i know it wasnt BUT ....ANYWAY im not sittin in a ohio jail, im at home so lesson learned.