Sorry to hear about that. We reap what we sow... it probably was destined to happen at some point. Somehow, down the road, good will come from this mess if he is able to see God. JMO- hopefully you will be able to look back at things like this & thank God for how things changed. I am sure he is smart... but he is living in the flesh & getting the kind of results to be expected... if he believes in God & you can ever get him to look at the Bible, have him read "Galations 5".... I used to be like him too. My life was a train-reck!! My mistakes & seeking God in the end saved my A$$!!