OK, I read it all. A man has a right to change his mind... with no contract in place. I did not see a "contract"... yes, a man's word is important. But- a word is all it is until it becomes a contract. Who said it would be unfair to change one's mind? The "deal" is not really a deal until it becomes offical. What you two had was a tentative agreement by word of mouth. I understand the frustration of him backing out at the last minute... that was annoying I bet. I am sorry your agreement never became a deal.