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Thanks guys, and thanks Scott.
Lively the location/place does come up automatically on the regular RJ description and will put it on this one as well - thanks for the tip - but the location is known and the shipping method always discussed at time of sale. OS shiping should not make it ok to have to get mucked around.
The issue here was and is communication - and if Scott is geniuine about his circumstace - could explain to some degree. However all this could be avoided if I had mesages returned.
I think I have been more than fair and reasonable as I waited for nearly six months before going public.
Anyway, it looks like Scott has sent me a package - so Ill see how that goes!