problem solved
 

had a good conversation and the problem seems to be the truckdriver who took the car to pay his gamblingproblems.
Theopsmanager gives me a refund in another car and i accept.
thanks for your help
Bert

I think if it's not been over 30 days you can file a claim with paypal, it may be 45 days i'm not sure. But if he has any money in his account or bank account which he most probalby has listed on his paypal account.Paypal will return your money or atleast approach him about the problem.
Others may know more about paypal.

Zip.

If I remember right you only have up to 45 days to make a claim with Paypal. The only thing that probably sucks is the guy probably already removed his account. Being from overseas makes it a WHOLE lot worse to get resolve...